Saturday, January 9, 2010

MY E-MAIL WITH LOVE-Thankful

Thankful
One day, there was a blind man sitting on the steps of a building with a hat by his feet and a sign that read: "I am blind, please help."


A creative publicist was walking by and stopped to observe. He saw that the blind man had only a few coins in his hat. He dropped in more coins and, without asking for permission, took the sign and rewrote it.


He returned the sign to the blind man and left. That afternoon the publicist returned to the blind man and noticed that his hat was full of bills and coins.


The blind man recognized his footsteps and asked if it was he who had rewritten his sign and wanted to know what he had written on it. The publicist responded: "Nothing that was not true. I just wrote the message a little differently." He smiled and went on his way.
The new sign read: "Today is Spring and I cannot see it."

Sometimes we need to change our strategy. If we always do what we've always done, we'll always get what we've always gotten.


Chinese Proverb:
"When someone shares something of value with you and you benefit from it, you have a moral obligation to share it with others."

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The grass isn't always greener on the other side!! Move from one job to another, but only for the right reasons. "It's yet another day at office. As I logged on to the marketing and advertising sites for the latest updates, as usual, I found the headlines dominated by 'who's moving from one company to another after a short stint, and I wondered, why are so many people leaving one job for another?


Is it passé now to work with just one company for a sufficiently long period?


Whenever I ask this question to people who leave a company, the answers I get are: "Oh, I am getting a 200% hike in salary";

"Well, I am jumping three levels in my designation"; "Well, they are going to send me abroad in six months".


Then, I look around at all the people who are considered successful today and who have reached the top - be it in a media agency, an advertising agency or a company.

I find that most of these people are the ones who have stuck to the company, ground their heels and worked their way to the top. And, as I look around for people who changed their jobs constantly, I find they have stagnated at some level, in obscurity!

In this absolutely ruthless, dynamic and competitive environment, there are still no short cuts to success or to making money. The only thing that continues to pay, as earlier, is loyalty and hard work. Yes, it pays! Sometimes immediately, sometimes after a lot of time. But, it does pay.

Does this mean that one should stick to an organization and wait for that golden moment?

Of course not. After a long stint, there always comes a time for moving in most organizations, but it is important to move for the right reasons, rather than superficial ones, like money, designation or an overseas trip.

Remember, no company recruits for charity. More often than not, when you are offered an unseemly hike in salary or designation that is disproportionate to what that company offers it current employees, there is always unseen bait attached. The result?

You will, in the long-term, have reached exactly the same  levels or maybe lower levels than what you would have in your current company.

A lot of people leave an organization because they are "unhappy".  What is this so-called-unhappiness?

I have been working for donkey's years and there has never been a day when I am not unhappy about something in my work environment-boss, rude colleague, fussy clients etc.

Unhappiness in a workplace, to a large extent, is transient. If you look hard enough, there is always something to be unhappy about. But, more importantly; do I come to work to be "happy" in the trust sense? If I think hard, the answer is "No". Happiness is something you find with family, friends, may be a close circle of colleagues who have become friends.

What you come to work for is to earn, build a reputation, satisfy your ambitions, be appreciated for your work ethics, face challenges and get the job done. So, the next time you are tempted to move, ask yourself why you moving and what are are you moving into. Some questions are:


* Am I ready and capable of handling the new responsibility? If yes, what could be the possible reasons my current company has not offered me the same responsibility?


* Who are the people who currently handle this responsibility in the current and new company?

Am I as good as the best among them? * As the new job offer has a different profile, why have I not given the current company the option to offer me this profile?


* Why is the new company offering me the job? Do they want me for my skills, or is there an ulterior motive? An honest answer to these will eventually decide where you go in your career - to the top of the pile in the long term (at the cost of short- term blips) or to become another average employee who gets lost with time in the wilderness?


"DESERVE BEFORE YOU DESIRE"


Dr. R. Gopalkrishnan Chairman TATA Sons Ltd.

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